[expect] refactor common functions (#5634)

* unify node creating and destroying
* simplify switching between nodes

tests/scripts/expect/cli-reset.exp

@@ -29,7 +29,7 @@
 
 source "tests/scripts/expect/_common.exp"
 
-set spawn_id [spawn_node 1]
+spawn_node 1
 
 send "ifconfig up\n"
 expect "Done"
@@ -65,4 +65,4 @@ send "panid\n"
 expect "0xffff"
 expect "Done"
 
-dispose
+dispose_all